Psychological and personal transformation is regarded as a pure form of intellectual work on the personality and a distinctive kind of intelligence that covers every area of life. A personality advanced in its psychological and intellectual growth is able to handle all its relationships and circumstances, and to deal with new developments in events with self-reliance and ease. Psychological transformation is distinguished by covering all dimensions of the self. Psychological perception of the dimensions of the personality, the depth of its connections and the basis of its standing grows, and the personality moves to a high degree of stability, steadiness and aspiration. The person then interacts with their environment through the embrace of positive interaction, and leads relationships skillfully, helping matters proceed in the best way and along the right path.
When a therapist or psychological counselor learns the spiritual transformation program, it represents a qualitative leap in their work and an effective therapeutic influence for all cases of family problems. A therapist advanced in their own transformation can exert a personal psychological influence and instill positive influences on the personalities of the spouses, until the client becomes accepting of the relationship and changes their direction in it from separation to coexistence and stability.
Transformational Psychological Therapy for Relationships:
Personal psychological transformation is considered an excellent specialized approach to personal disagreements, as it brings psychological therapies together into one body and integrates them into a program that enables spouses to:
1- Move to the best psychological state.
2- Rise above all their negative feelings.
3- Rid themselves of all the residue of negative dealings in the relationship.
4- Overlook most of the clashes.
5- Look at the self with psychological acceptance and raise their ambition in engaging with the marital relationship.
6- Advance with steady steps toward resolving the disagreement.
7- Gain mental clarity and positive focus on the interest of the family.
8- Be alert to negative patterns of dealing, address differences in personality, and accept differences in character.
9- Control their thinking and prevent the negative emergence of thoughts that relate specifically to the relationship.
10- Act with a positive personality and deal in the way that best serves communication with the spouse.
Methods of Transformational Therapy:
- Working with the spiritual entity of the self, awakening awareness of the spirituality of the psychological makeup, and moving the person's state to its spiritual standing.
- Awakening perception of the personality's constants and activating the basic concepts for dealing with family relationships.
- Establishing qualitative values and encouraging adoption of the values of the relationship and the family's interests in the counseling setting.
- Moving forward on shared interests with personal effort and individual responsibility, in line with natural disposition.
- Recognizing the stable rational logic in the subconscious mind, activating personal energy, and relying on the constants that motivate care for the affairs of the self.
- Asserting the self and rising within the ideal framework of the personality, for the benefit of the marriage and the family relationship.
- Psychological liberation, and clearing the mind and nerves of tension, pressure and apparent and hidden psychological fears.
